Adventures Galore

It's that time again: vacation.

For every six weeks of work, I get two weeks of paid time off. This has by far been the greatest advantage to working in France. In the next 14 days I will be conquering 6 countries. In the time leading up to my Eastern Europe Extravaganza, I've had plenty of other slightly smaller adventures.

These include, but are not limited to:

Dijon Mustard in Dijon, France

Reims, France: Champagne Region

The Lands of
Mustard and Champagne

Baking and Cooking Experiments

My First French Haircut

Visiting more of the Lorraine: Epinal

My Last Day of Laundry

Life in the Lorraine

Interlaken, Switzerland

And somewhere in there, I managed a wonderful weekend in BEAUTIFUL Switzerland

(Another ✓ in the book!)

  

        Stay at Balmer's Herberge ✓

Hike in the Swiss Alps ✓

Full Speed and Running: The Countdown Begins

The other night while lying in bed, I had math equations running through my head. I bought my plane ticket home for May 3^rd, giving me 74 more days in France. Out of those 74 days, only 22 are work days. That means that only 29.7% of my time left here will be filled working. So what will I do with the other 2/3^rds of my time?

For starters, I’m headed to Spain tomorrow! For reasons unknown, this country has been calling my name for quite some time. I’m following the tourist track and will be spending the first few days in Barcelona, then finishing the week out in the country's capital, Madrid. Of course I’ll be checking off items in my book of things to do as I go along, which includes “have chocolate con churros after an all-nighter in Barcelona”. This will hopefully be completed on Tuesday, aka Mardi Gras.

After my return from Spain, I will have another six weeks of work before my final two weeks of vacation. I only work Mondays, Tuesdays, and Thursdays, hence the remaining 22 work days. If only I could work the next three weeks straight and still be paid for the remaining 52 days and just travel nonstop. Although I’m sure I’d run out of money sooner rather than later… It’s actually good for me to have to take time off from traveling. It gets expensive!

When I look at my time like this, I can already see it flying by! I knew this would happen. Doesn’t it always? You hit the half way mark and BOOM, you’re running at full speed. I’m going to do my best to complete the things I still have left on my list, but I’m also going to savor all the time I have for doing nothing. Because let’s get real. I will probably never have this much free time for myself until I’m retired. Gotta soak it up while I’ve got it.

Contentment

This past week I found myself with a little extra spring in my step and caught myself walking through my days with an unexpected grin on my face.

Things that made me smile:

Now just imagine the snowflakes falling and
seeing there's still 40 minutes left on the timer.

• Having the first real snow begin while doing my laundry for the first time in six weeks. Remember the picture of me sitting outside waiting for my clothes to finish washing?
• Seeing a typical French woman in her black high heel boots trudging through the snowfall with an umbrella in hand. Who does that?!
• Getting smart about buying new groceries by Google Translating the names first. Assuming that cornstarch and brown sugar will clearly present themselves is only makes things harder.
• Heading down the baking goods isle to realize InterMarche had gotten a makeover.  The sugar is no longer next to the flour and the tea is now accompanied by the chocolate. I’m having to relearn the grocery store. It brings back lost memories from my first weeks in Commercy.
• Hearing my name loudly yelled out from across the store. My students are everywhere.
• Having a group of male students stand directly behind me in the checkout line when the two lanes on either side of me were clearly open. Then hearing them debating amongst themselves whether or not I understood what the cashier was saying to me.
• Finding myself with a group of students playing piano and being asked to join in on the sing-along of Titanic’s “My Heart Will Go On”.
• Waving at my students from across the street and realizing how awkward they looked imitating my gesture. The wave does not blend well into the French culture.
• Walking past a group of three middle schoolers jamming out to “Cotton Eyed Joe”. See video below.
• Holding my first official Language Club. I tried to start it before Christmas, but no one came. This week a girl asked me about it and after changing the day and time, I met with four English enthusiastic students.
• Meeting one-on-one with a sophomore girl wanting to practice her English, but who seemed to only be able to produce German words. “Ich habe one Bruder. Ich like lesen.” I was so thankful for my one semester of German!
• Having the sun shine bright two days in a row and still seeing a bit of light out when leaving the school at 6pm.

Without even knowing, my effort of enjoying each day has started to become habit. I can say with all certainty, that I am so thankful for my time here in Commercy and wouldn't change any of it for the world. I pray that when I find myself in unpleasant situations, that I can think back to this and allow the smiles to continue.

I couldn't believe I was seeing twelve year old French kids dancing to this in public. Too funny!

Enjoying Today

« Les enfants n’ont ni passé ni avenir et, ce qui ne nous arrive guère, ils jouissent du présent.  »

--  Jean de La Bruyère

Children have neither past nor future; they enjoy the present, which very few of us do.

This past week I found myself quite antsy. I wasn’t sure the reason. I was with Claire, so being alone wasn’t the problem. I didn’t have the desire to be sitting in my apartment. I had no immediate need to travel. I just couldn’t put my hand on it. All I knew is that I had the overwhelming feeling of being unsatisfied.

I have an orange journal which I have written in every day since my arrival here in France. But lately I was upset with myself, finding the journal to be more of a nuisance than a joy. It had become rather impersonal, stating facts about my time instead of emotions and true thoughts. So on my train ride home (yet another three hours of being in transit), I took out my orange book and began dissecting what I hadn’t been able to put to words.

Here is what I discovered. I’m ready for a change. But the problem is, this is how I’ve always lived my life. A few months here, a few weeks there. What I’ve always loved is planning the next thing. There’s a point, however, when I’m going to have to live in the now. I don’t want to be wishing my time away here. 

Last spring I had taken a wellness class, mostly for an easy A and to get in my last credits I needed to graduate. To my surprise, I found this course very interesting and was able to apply what I learned in class to my daily life. A simple, yet inspiring lesson about the seven dimensions of wellness always stuck with me.

1. Physical
2. Emotional
3. Spiritual
4. Intellectual
5. Social
6. Environmental
7. Occupational

Up until my arrival in France, I worked daily to create a balance among all these things in my life. Once in Commercy, my whole schedule was thrown off kilter, thus sending my harmony out the window. So on that Wednesday afternoon aboard the SNCF train to Commercy, I began to set goals to find this balance again throughout these next three and a half months. It’s crazy to see how my entire mood has already changed. I wake up almost every day at 8am (instead of my usual grasse mat, sleeping until noon). I have things to do accomplish and it makes each day so much more meaningful. And the sun shining sure helps too :)

I’ve got the next month to just take life easy and focus on the present, a surprisingly nice change from the chaos of traveling I experienced throughout December and the beginning of January.

A few highlights. (Or rather, I should start with the lowlight which consisted of me leaving my camera on the Paris metro upon my mother’s arrival, thus explaining the lack of pictures… )

• After Commercy, Mom and I headed off to London! We spent a whole day with my friend Asha and her family. What a blessing! We also saw three shows in two days in West End and I was able to check off multiple things from my Book of Things to Do…
• The two of use spent Christmas in Paris. Attending Christmas Eve Mass at Notre Dame was one of those surreal moments. 
• I made a trip to Belgium to see a friend who was an exchange student at my high school. Her family was so welcoming and it was so wonderful to meet again after four years!
• My great friend Kelsey visited for a week!! (And my mom sent a new camera with her for me. Thanks Mom!) We celebrated the New Year under the lights of Paris and we made a planned trip to Luxembourg.
• Kels and I, along with Claire made a weekend trip to Amersterdam, which I have since deemed my new favorite European city. The architecture was beautiful. We went biking next to the canals like locals. And we were able to see the Anne Frank House. Wow. Only highlights. Well, except for that night bus...

There is so much more to tell, but the words never seem to give my memories justice.

February will bring a trip to Spain, but until then, I’m going to be working on being happy where I’m at. I want to look at life with a more childlike view, enjoying what each day has to offer.

Claire, Kelsey, and Bre outside the Anne Frank House in Amsterdam